Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:
In the case of clear
divorce, such as when a man says “You are divorced” or “My wife is divorced”
it is not essential that there be the intention of divorce. It counts as
such even if one did not intend it, but it is essential that the person
should intend to utter the words and understand the meaning of them. Hence
if one who is asleep or who utters the word of divorce absentmindedly,
without intending to utter them, his divorce does not count as such. The
same applies if a non-Arabic-speaker utters the word of divorce (talaaq)
without knowing its meaning – it does not count as a divorce.
Based on this, what you
have mentioned about your imagining a meeting with your family and issuing a
divorce to her twice, and this happening three or four times, and your
saying that in a low voice, does not count as divorce, because it was either
something that you thought of to yourself, which is forgiven, or you did not
intend to utter the word of divorce and make it happen at that moment, and
you were only thinking of what would happen in the future, but you did not
want to issue a divorce at that moment, especially since you mentioned that
you suffer from lack of concentration and absentmindedness, and that when
you are worried about something you talk about it to yourself, and that may
be in a loud voice.
With regard to your
divorcing her when she was menstruating, this is a haraam divorce according
to scholarly consensus; you have to repent from it and resolve not to do it
again. If you consulted a scholar at that time to ask whether it counted as
divorce or not, you should follow the fatwa he gave you.
And Allaah knows best.
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